A good marriage is supposed to be one where each spouse secretly thinks he or she got the better deal.

Anne Lamott
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In many marriages, one spouse will be seen as the “winner” and the other will be seen as the “loser.” While this can create a lot of stress in a relationship, it is actually a good sign that the partnership is healthy. When one spouse feels that he or she has been treated unfairly or that he or she is being taken advantage of, then the marriage may be on shaky ground.

Source: Plan B: Further Thoughts On Faith

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